Counselling: Learning and Active Listening

Counselling is to help the lymph node to open up well-nigh there feeling inside and thoughts when the client has no one to talking to to and is in need to talk to someone. Core counselling skills be Paraphrasing Reflecting Summarising Focussing Active listen Empathy SOLERParaphrasing is focusing on the main f tours.Reflecting and paraphrasing are similar its reporting back to the client whats been said it is a elan of indicating that we are listening, Reflecting refers to the skill of communication. Summerising, summerising is the process of trying to put everything whats been said during the session. Focusing, focusing is important because it shows the client that youre showing an interest on whats been said. Active listening, active listening is important because youre listening to the client and the client get alongs your showing an interest. As a councillor its important to listen and represent full attention to the client. Empathy, empathySOLER. S square, sit facing oppo site the client O open in your posture (not closing yourself such as folding arms and legs) L leaning forward E eye contact R relaxed (dont fidget)Its important to have SOLER as a skill because it makes the client feel comfortable and the client knows that there being herd also theres know the councillor is showing an interest and there feel more comfortable while using this skill.Counselling skills and attitudes being a good listener, so the client knows there being herd Having patience with your self by not getting irritated.Good body language to the show the client you are active listening and compensable attention on whats been said. Good communication by not interrupting and by reflecting the clients point of view without being judgemental. Showing empathy is to show the client that someone understands her giving the client closure. be genuine to show the client that youre being real and not putting ac act on.What counselling skills are not Advising the client Being judgemen tal Caring in a particular way Befriending Treating or healing someone like a doctor Instructing or teaching Giving focusing